(א) וַיֹּ֤אמֶר יְהוָה֙ אֶל־אַבְרָ֔ם לֶךְ־לְךָ֛ מֵאַרְצְךָ֥ וּמִמּֽוֹלַדְתְּךָ֖ וּמִבֵּ֣ית אָבִ֑יךָ אֶל־הָאָ֖רֶץ אֲשֶׁ֥ר אַרְאֶֽךָּ׃
(1) The ETERNAL said to Abram, “Go forth from your native land and from your father’s house to the land that I will show you.
Rabbi Levi explains that when Abram was traveling through various lands, he was people going to drunken parties. "May I not be a part of this country!" he would say. But, when he reached the location of Tyre, near the Land of Israel, and saw people working at weeding and hoeing in the proper seasons, he said: "may my portion be in this country."
(As told by R. Harvey J. Fields, A Torah Commentary for Our Times, p. 39)
It was not a lie for Abram to call Sarai his "sister" since Sarai was his niece, and relatives may be termed brother and sister.
Rashi asserts that the term "daughter" can also be used regarding a granddaughter, and thus "sister" can be used regarding a niece.
Other commentators disagree. Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch . . .argued that Abram's actions were honourable. He knew that they Egyptians would not deal harshly with an unmarried woman travelling with her brother but that they would kill the husband of a beautiful woman and rape her. So he acted to protect both Sarai and himself. . .
The issue remains unresolved. Was Abram justified in lying? Is using a half-truth lying? and what about Sarai? Was it her responsibility to tell the truth rather than follow Abram's instructions?
(R. Harvey J. Fields, ibid)
(27) Now this is the line of Terah: Terah begot Abram, Nahor, and Haran; and Haran begot Lot. (28) Haran died in the lifetime of his father Terah, in his native land, Ur of the Chaldeans. (29) Abram and Nahor took to themselves wives, the name of Abram’s wife being Sarai and that of Nahor’s wife Milcah, the daughter of Haran, the father of Milcah and Iscah.
(11) “I thought,” said Abraham, “surely there is no fear of God in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife. (12) And besides, she is in truth my sister, my father’s daughter though not my mother’s; and she became my wife.
This passage is not a tale about unethical behaviour, but a story of marginalised persons who succeed in roundabout, unorthodox ways. . .
- The Torah: A Women's Commentary, p. 63
(ו) וַיַּעֲבֹ֤ר אַבְרָם֙ בָּאָ֔רֶץ . . .
(6) Abram passed through the land . . .
Vayaavor Avram, "Abram passed through" (Gen. 12:6)
My parents have just moved into a full-care senior residence. Life - even in later stages - requires transitioning from one experience / place / situation to a new and (often radically) different one.
Abram experienced this. "God forth, " he is told: separate yourself from all you know; go "to a place that I will show you" (Gen. 12:1). So, at seventy-five, Abram departed the homeland of his youth for "a place he did not know."
Abram grew to know what my parents continue to learn: so long as we live, transition is a constant
One Hebrew root ע-ב-ר captures this concept. Since one of Abram's ancestors is Eber (עבר), perhaps successful transition between life's stages was built into Abram's gene code.
Presenting Abram, our paradigm. Know that, for us as for him, life requires episodic, and often difficult, trasitions. Abram didn't just move physically: he transitioned from one of his life stages to the next - and di so with grace and conviction.
Abram's the best. Perhaps that's why he's called אברם העברי (Avram HaIvri): Abram the Transitioner (Gen. 14:3)
(From Voices of Torah, p. 32)
(א) וַיֹּ֤אמֶר יְהוָה֙ אֶל־אַבְרָ֔ם לֶךְ־לְךָ֛ מֵאַרְצְךָ֥ וּמִמּֽוֹלַדְתְּךָ֖ וּמִבֵּ֣ית אָבִ֑יךָ אֶל־הָאָ֖רֶץ אֲשֶׁ֥ר אַרְאֶֽךָּ׃
(1) The ETERNAL said to Abram, “Go to(ward) yourself from your native land and from your father’s house to the land that I will show you.


