Sheet of 10 sources on LASHON HARA. -
וְאָמַר רַב שֵׁשֶׁת מִשּׁוּם רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲזַרְיָה: כׇּל הַמְסַפֵּר לָשׁוֹן הָרָע, וְכֵן הַמְקַבֵּל לָשׁוֹן הָרָע, וְכׇל הַמֵּעִיד עֵדוּת שֶׁקֶר – רָאוּי לְהַשְׁלִיכוֹ לִכְלָבִים, דִּכְתִיב ״לַכֶּלֶב תַּשְׁלִכוּן אֹתוֹ״, וּסְמִיךְ לֵיהּ ״לֹא תִשָּׂא שֵׁמַע שָׁוְא וְגוֹ׳״, קְרִי בֵּיהּ נָמֵי ״לֹא תַשִּׂיא״.
And Rav Sheises also said in the name of Rebbi Elazar ben Azaryah, Anyone who tells over Lashon Hara and anyone who accepts Lashon Hara, and anyone who gives false testimony is fit to be thrown to the dogs as the Torah says, (Exodus 22, 30) "To the dogs you should throw it" and next to it (Exodus 23,1) "Do not bear a false report etc." Read it also "Do not cause to be accepted.
זֶה שֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב (קהלת ה, ה): אַל תִּתֵּן אֶת פִּיךָ לַחֲטִיא אֶת בְּשָׂרֶךָ, רַבָּנָן אָמְרֵי הַמִּקְרָא הַזֶּה מְדַבֵּר בְּבַעֲלֵי לָשׁוֹן הָרָע, כֵּיצַד, אַל תִּתֵּן אֶת פִּיךָ, מַהוּ כֵן, כֵּיוָן שֶׁהַפֶּה אוֹמֵר לָשׁוֹן הָרָע הוּא חוֹטֵא עַל הַגּוּף שֶׁגּוֹרֵם לוֹ לִלְקוֹת, הֲרֵי לַחְטִיא אֶת בְּשָׂרֶךָ, שֶׁהַפֶּה חוֹטֵא עַל הַבָּשָׂר, מַהוּ (קהלת ה, ה): וְאַל תֹּאמַר לִפְנֵי הַמַּלְאָךְ כִּי שְׁגָגָה הִיא, שֶׁלֹא תֹאמַר הֲרֵינִי הוֹלֵךְ וְאוֹמֵר לָשׁוֹן הָרָע וְאֵין בְּרִיָּה יוֹדַעַת, אָמַר לוֹ הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא הֱוֵי יוֹדֵעַ שֶׁאֲנִי שׁוֹלֵחַ מַלְאָךְ וְהוּא עוֹמֵד אֶצְלְךָ וְכוֹתֵב כָּל מַה שֶּׁאַתָּה מְדַבֵּר עַל חֲבֵרְךָ, מִנַּיִן, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (קהלת י, כ): גַּם בְּמַדָּעֲךָ מֶלֶךְ אַל תְּקַלֵּל, לָמָּה (קהלת י, כ): כִּי עוֹף הַשָּׁמַיִם יוֹלִיךְ אֶת הַקּוֹל. וּמַהוּ (קהלת י, כ): וּבַעַל הַכְּנָפַיִם יַגִּיד דָּבָר, אֵלּוּ הַמַּלְאָכִים שֶׁכָּתוּב בָּהֶם (ישעיה ו, ב): שֵׁשׁ כְּנָפַיִם שֵׁשׁ כְּנָפַיִם לְאֶחָד, (קהלת ה, ה): לָמָּה יִקְצֹף הָאֱלֹהִים עַל קוֹלֶךָ, עַל אוֹתוֹ הַקּוֹל שֶׁיָּצָא מִפִּיךָ. (קהלת ה, ה): וְחִבֵּל אֶת מַעֲשֵׂה יָדֶיךָ, שֶׁאוֹתוֹ הָאִישׁ לוֹקֶה בִּנְגָעִים, וְאִם אֵין אַתָּה מַאֲמִין הֲרֵי מִרְיָם עַל יְדֵי שֶׁאָמְרָה לָשׁוֹן הָרָע עַל משֶׁה אָחִיהָ, לָקְתָה. הֱוֵי זָכוֹר אֵת אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה וגו', וּמִתּוֹךְ כָּךְ לָקְתָה.
[10] This is what is written (Ecclesiastes 5:5): 'Do not let your mouth bring guilt upon your flesh.' The Rabbis say that this verse is speaking about those who engage in lashon hara (evil speech). How so? 'Do not let your mouth,' what does this mean? Since the mouth speaks lashon hara, it sins against the body by causing it to be afflicted. This is what it means by 'bringing guilt upon your flesh,' that the mouth sins against the flesh. What does it say (Ecclesiastes 5:5): 'Do not say in the presence of the messenger that it was a mistake,' meaning, do not say, 'I will go and speak lashon hara, and no creature will know.' God said to him, 'Know that I send a messenger, and he stands beside you and writes all that you speak against your friend.' From where do we know this? As it says (Ecclesiastes 10:20): 'Do not curse the king even in your thoughts.' Why (Ecclesiastes 10:20)? 'For a bird of the sky may carry your voice.' What is (Ecclesiastes 10:20) 'the master of the wings will tell the matter'? These are the angels that are written about (Isaiah 6:2): 'Six wings, six wings to one,' (Ecclesiastes 5:5): 'Why should God be angry at your voice,' at that voice that comes out of your mouth. (Ecclesiastes 5:5) 'And destroy the work of your hands,' for that person is struck with afflictions. And if you don't believe, behold Miriam, who, because she spoke lashon hara against Moses, her brother, was afflicted. Remember what was done, etc., and as a result, she was afflicted.
לֹא־תֵלֵ֤ךְ רָכִיל֙ בְּעַמֶּ֔יךָ לֹ֥א תַעֲמֹ֖ד עַל־דַּ֣ם רֵעֶ֑ךָ אֲנִ֖י יְהֹוָֽה׃
You shall not tell tales about people not present and you shall not stand idly by while one of your fellow Israelites is being hurt for I am your God;
Text 3b - Hafetz Hayyim 1:8
This prohibition of lashon ha-ra applies whether speaking about someone verbally, or writing about him. [The rule] does not distinguish between telling it explicitly or just hinting at it - in every form, it falls into the category of forbidden speech (lashon hara).
This prohibition of lashon ha-ra applies whether speaking about someone verbally, or writing about him. [The rule] does not distinguish between telling it explicitly or just hinting at it - in every form, it falls into the category of forbidden speech (lashon hara).
Text 3c - Hafetz Hayyim 3;3
The Prohibition of Lashon Hara is so serious that even if one does not speak it out of hatred, and does not even intend the story to denigrate the other person, but said it only in jest or humorously -- even so, since it in fact is negative information, the Torah prohibits it.
The Prohibition of Lashon Hara is so serious that even if one does not speak it out of hatred, and does not even intend the story to denigrate the other person, but said it only in jest or humorously -- even so, since it in fact is negative information, the Torah prohibits it.
Text 3a - Mishneh Torah, Laws of Personla Qualities 7:2
Who is a Talebearer (rakhil)? One who carries things and goes from one to another says,"This is what x said; such and such I heard about x." Even though it is the truth, he destroys the world.
There is a much greater sin than this - and it is included in this negative commandment - and that is evil speech (lashon ha-ra). That is the one who speaks disparagingly about his fellow, even though it is true.
But one who speaks falsely is called "one who gives his fellow a bad reputation" (motzi shem ra).
Who is a Talebearer (rakhil)? One who carries things and goes from one to another says,"This is what x said; such and such I heard about x." Even though it is the truth, he destroys the world.
There is a much greater sin than this - and it is included in this negative commandment - and that is evil speech (lashon ha-ra). That is the one who speaks disparagingly about his fellow, even though it is true.
But one who speaks falsely is called "one who gives his fellow a bad reputation" (motzi shem ra).
Text 2 - Arakhin 15b
Rabbi Hama Son of Rabbi Hanina said:
What is the meaning of the verse (Prov. 18:21) "Death and life are in the power [literally, 'hand'] of the tongue? Does the tongue have a hand?
It teaches you:
Just as the hand can kill, so the tongue can kill.
Rabbi Hama Son of Rabbi Hanina said:
What is the meaning of the verse (Prov. 18:21) "Death and life are in the power [literally, 'hand'] of the tongue? Does the tongue have a hand?
It teaches you:
Just as the hand can kill, so the tongue can kill.
נמצא האומר בפיו חמור מן העושה מעשה שכן מצינו שלא נתחתם גזר דין על אבותינו במדבר אלא על לשון הרע שנאמר (במדבר יד, כב) וינסו אותי זה עשר פעמים וגו':
Based on the relative scope of the fines, with the defamer paying twice the sum of the rapist and the seducer, it is apparent that one who utters malicious speech with his mouth is a more severe transgressor than one who performs an action. And this is corroborated, as we found that the sentence imposed on our ancestors in the wilderness was sealed only due to the malicious speech disseminated by the spies, as it is stated at that time: “All those men that have seen My glory, and My signs, which I wrought in Egypt and in the wilderness, yet they have tried Me these ten times and have not listened to My voice” (Numbers 14:22).
אֶחָד הַמְסַפֵּר בְּלָשׁוֹן הָרַע בִּפְנֵי חֲבֵרוֹ אוֹ שֶׁלֹּא בְּפָנָיו, וְהַמְסַפֵּר דְּבָרִים שֶׁגּוֹרְמִים אִם נִשְׁמְעוּ אִישׁ מִפִּי אִישׁ לְהַזִּיק חֲבֵרוֹ בְּגוּפוֹ אוֹ בְּמָמוֹנוֹ, וַאֲפִלּוּ לְהָצֵר לוֹ אוֹ לְהַפְחִידוֹ, הֲרֵי זֶה לָשׁוֹן הָרַע. וְאִם נֶאֶמְרוּ דְּבָרִים אֵלּוּ בִּפְנֵי שְׁלֹשָׁה כְּבָר נִשְׁמַע הַדָּבָר וְנוֹדַע. וְאִם סִפֵּר הַדָּבָר אֶחָד מִן הַשְּׁלֹשָׁה פַּעַם אַחֶרֶת אֵין בּוֹ מִשּׁוּם לָשׁוֹן הָרַע. וְהוּא שֶׁלֹּא יִתְכַּוֵּן לְהַעֲבִיר הַקּוֹל וּלְגַלּוֹתוֹ יוֹתֵר:
[There is no difference] whether one speaks lashon horah about a person in his presence or behind his back. [The statements] of people who relate matters which, when passed from one person to another, will cause harm to a man's person or to his property or will even [merely] annoy him or frighten him are considered as lashon horah.
If such statements were made in the presence of three people, [one may assume that the matter] has already become public knowledge. Thus, if one of the three relates the matter a second time, it is not considered lashon horah, provided his intention was not to spread the matter further and publicize it.
If such statements were made in the presence of three people, [one may assume that the matter] has already become public knowledge. Thus, if one of the three relates the matter a second time, it is not considered lashon horah, provided his intention was not to spread the matter further and publicize it.
א"ר חמא ברבי חנינא מאי דכתיב (משלי יח, כא) מות וחיים ביד לשון וכי יש יד ללשון לומר לך מה יד ממיתה אף לשון ממיתה אי מה יד אינה ממיתה אלא בסמוך לה אף לשון אינה ממיתה אלא בסמוך לה ת"ל חץ שחוט לשונם
Rabbi Ḥama, son of Rabbi Ḥanina, says: What is the meaning of that which is written: “Death and life are in the hand of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21). Does the tongue have a hand? Rather the verse comes to tell you that just as a hand can kill, so too a tongue can kill. If you were to claim that just as the hand kills only from close by, so too the tongue kills only from close by, therefore the verse states: “Their tongue is a sharpened arrow” (Jeremiah 9:7). The tongue kills like an arrow that is fired from a bow, at a great distance.

