Commandment 17 - To Thank God After Meals (Birkat HaMazon)
וְאָכַלְתָּ֖ וְשָׂבָ֑עְתָּ וּבֵֽרַכְתָּ֙ אֶת־יְהֹוָ֣ה אֱלֹהֶ֔יךָ עַל־הָאָ֥רֶץ הַטֹּבָ֖ה אֲשֶׁ֥ר נָֽתַן־לָֽךְ׃ הִשָּׁ֣מֶר לְךָ֔ פֶּן־תִּשְׁכַּ֖ח אֶת־יְהֹוָ֣ה אֱלֹהֶ֑יךָ לְבִלְתִּ֨י שְׁמֹ֤ר מִצְוֺתָיו֙ וּמִשְׁפָּטָ֣יו וְחֻקֹּתָ֔יו אֲשֶׁ֛ר אָנֹכִ֥י מְצַוְּךָ֖ הַיּֽוֹם׃ פֶּן־תֹּאכַ֖ל וְשָׂבָ֑עְתָּ וּבָתִּ֥ים טֹבִ֛ים תִּבְנֶ֖ה וְיָשָֽׁבְתָּ׃ וּבְקָֽרְךָ֤ וְצֹֽאנְךָ֙ יִרְבְּיֻ֔ן וְכֶ֥סֶף וְזָהָ֖ב יִרְבֶּה־לָּ֑ךְ וְכֹ֥ל אֲשֶׁר־לְךָ֖ יִרְבֶּֽה׃ וְרָ֖ם לְבָבֶ֑ךָ וְשָֽׁכַחְתָּ֙ אֶת־יְהֹוָ֣ה אֱלֹהֶ֔יךָ הַמּוֹצִיאֲךָ֛ מֵאֶ֥רֶץ מִצְרַ֖יִם מִבֵּ֥ית עֲבָדִֽים׃
When you have eaten your fill, give thanks to your God יהוה for the good land given to you. Take care lest you forget your God יהוה and fail to keep the divine commandments, rules, and laws which I enjoin upon you today. When you have eaten your fill, and have built fine houses to live in, and your herds and flocks have multiplied, and your silver and gold have increased, and everything you own has prospered, beware lest your heart grow haughty and you forget your God יהוה —who freed you from the land of Egypt, the house of bondage;

יט והמצוה התשע עשרה הוא הצווי שנצטוינו להודות לו יתעלה אחר כל אכילה והוא אמרו ואכלת ושבעת וברכת את ה׳. ולשון התוספתא ברכת המזון מן התורה שנאמר ואכלת ושבעת וברכת את יי וכבר נתבארו דיני מצוה זו בכמה מקומות במסכת ברכות

That is that He commanded us to bless Him after eating. And that is His saying, "And you shall eat and be satiated, and bless the Lord, your God" (Deuteronomy 8:10). And the language of the Tosefta (Tosefta Berakhot 6:1) is, "Grace over the meals is [an obligation] from the Torah, as it is stated, 'And you shall eat and be satiated, and bless.'" And the regulations of this commandment have already been explained in many places in Tractate Berakhot.

מַתְנִי׳ אָכַל עֲנָבִים וּתְאֵנִים וְרִמּוֹנִים — מְבָרֵךְ אַחֲרֵיהֶם שָׁלֹשׁ בְּרָכוֹת, דִּבְרֵי רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל. וַחֲכָמִים אוֹמְרִים: בְּרָכָה אַחַת מֵעֵין שָׁלֹשׁ. רַבִּי עֲקִיבָא אוֹמֵר: אֲפִילּוּ אָכַל שֶׁלֶק וְהוּא מְזוֹנוֹ — מְבָרֵךְ עָלָיו שָׁלֹשׁ בְּרָכוֹת. הַשּׁוֹתֶה מַיִם לִצְמָאוֹ — מְבָרֵךְ ״שֶׁהַכֹּל נִהְיָה בִּדְבָרוֹ״. רַבִּי טַרְפוֹן אוֹמֵר: ״בּוֹרֵא נְפָשׁוֹת רַבּוֹת וְחֶסְרוֹנָן״.
MISHNA: One who ate from the fruit for which Eretz Yisrael was praised, grapes and figs and pomegranates, recites the three blessings of Grace after Meals, as he would after eating bread; this is the statement of Rabban Gamliel. And the Rabbis say: One need only recite one blessing abridged from the three blessings of Grace after Meals. Rabbi Akiva says: The three blessings of Grace after Meals are not restricted to bread; rather, even if one ate boiled vegetables, but it is his primary sustenance, he recites the three blessings of Grace after Meals. Additionally: One who drinks water to quench his thirst recites: By whose word all things came to be. Rabbi Tarfon says: He recites: Who creates the many forms of life and their needs.
אֶ֤רֶץ חִטָּה֙ וּשְׂעֹרָ֔ה וְגֶ֥פֶן וּתְאֵנָ֖ה וְרִמּ֑וֹן אֶֽרֶץ־זֵ֥ית שֶׁ֖מֶן וּדְבָֽשׁ׃ אֶ֗רֶץ אֲשֶׁ֨ר לֹ֤א בְמִסְכֵּנֻת֙ תֹּֽאכַל־בָּ֣הּ לֶ֔חֶם לֹֽא־תֶחְסַ֥ר כֹּ֖ל בָּ֑הּ אֶ֚רֶץ אֲשֶׁ֣ר אֲבָנֶ֣יהָ בַרְזֶ֔ל וּמֵהֲרָרֶ֖יהָ תַּחְצֹ֥ב נְחֹֽשֶׁת׃
a land of wheat, and barley, and vines, and fig trees, and pomegranates; a land of olive oil, and honey; a land in which thou shalt eat bread without scarceness, thou shalt not lack any thing in it; a land the stones of which are iron, and out of whose hills thou mayst dig brass.
הָאוֹכֵל פַּת חַיָּב לְבָרֵךְ לְפָנֶיהָ בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ׳‎ אֱלֹהֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם הַמּוֹצִיא לֶחֶם מִן הָאָרֶץ. וּלְאַחֲרֶיהָ אַרְבַּע בְּרָכוֹת. אָכַל דָּגָן שָׁלוּק כְּמוֹ שֶׁהוּא מְבָרֵךְ לְפָנָיו בּוֹרֵא פְּרִי הָאֲדָמָה. וּלְאַחֲרָיו בּוֹרֵא נְפָשׁוֹת רַבּוֹת. אָכַל קֶמַח מְבָרֵךְ לְפָנָיו שֶׁהַכּל וּלְאַחֲרָיו בּוֹרֵא נְפָשׁוֹת רַבּוֹת:
Before eating bread, a person should recite the blessing, "Blessed are You, God, our Lord, King of the universe, who brings forth bread from the earth." Afterwards, he should recite the four blessings [of grace].
Before eating kernels of grain that have been cooked without being processed, a person should recite the blessing borey pri ha'adamah. Afterwards, he should recite the blessing borey nefashot rabbot. Before eating flour, a person should recite the blessing shehakol. Afterwards, he should recite the blessing borey nefashot rabbot.
מִצְוַת עֲשֵׂה מִן הַתּוֹרָה לְבָרֵךְ אַחַר אֲכִילַת מָזוֹן שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברים ח י) ״וְאָכַלְתָּ וְשָׂבָעְתָּ וּבֵרַכְתָּ אֶת יְיָ׳‎ אֱלֹהֶיךָ״. וְאֵינוֹ חַיָּב מִן הַתּוֹרָה אֶלָּא אִם כֵּן שָׂבַע שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר וְאָכַלְתָּ וְשָׂבָעְתָּ וּבֵרַכְתָּ. וּמִדִּבְרֵי סוֹפְרִים אָכַל אֲפִלּוּ כְּזַיִת מְבָרֵךְ אַחֲרָיו:
It is a positive mitzvah from the Torah to bless [God] after eating satisfying food, as [Deuteronomy 8:10] states: "When you have eaten and are satiated, you shall bless God, your Lord."
The Torah itself requires a person to recite grace only when he eats to the point of satiation, as implied by the above verse, "When you have eaten and are satiated, you shall bless...." The Sages, however, ordained that one should recite grace after eating [an amount of bread equal] to the size of an olive.
סֵדֶר בִּרְכַּת הַמָּזוֹן כָּךְ הִיא. רִאשׁוֹנָה בִּרְכַּת הַזָּן. שְׁנִיָּה בִּרְכַּת הָאָרֶץ. שְׁלִישִׁית בּוֹנֵה יְרוּשָׁלָיִם. רְבִיעִית הַטּוֹב וְהַמֵּטִיב. בְּרָכָה רִאשׁוֹנָה משֶׁה רַבֵּנוּ תִּקְּנָהּ. שְׁנִיָּה תִּקֵּן יְהוֹשֻׁעַ. שְׁלִישִׁית תִּקֵּן דָּוִד וּשְׁלֹמֹה בְּנוֹ. רְבִיעִית חַכְמֵי מִשְׁנָה תִּקְּנוּהָ:
This is the order of the blessings of the grace after meals:
The first blessing [thanks God for providing our] sustenance;
The second blessing [thanks God for granting us] Eretz [Yisrael];
The third blessing [praises God as] "the builder of Jerusalem"; and
The fourth blessing [praises God as] "He who is good and does good."
The first blessing was instituted by Moses, our teacher; the second blessing by Joshua; the third by King David and his son, Solomon; and the fourth by the Sages of the Mishnah.
בִּרְכַּת הָאָרֶץ צָרִיךְ לוֹמַר הוֹדָיָה בִּתְחִלָּתָהּ וּבְסוֹפָהּ וְחוֹתֵם בָּהּ עַל הָאָרֶץ וְעַל הַמָּזוֹן. וְכָל שֶׁלֹּא אָמַר אֶרֶץ חֶמְדָּה טוֹבָה וּרְחָבָה בְּבִרְכַּת הָאָרֶץ לֹא יָצָא יְדֵי חוֹבָתוֹ. וְצָרִיךְ לְהַזְכִּיר בָּהּ בְּרִית וְתוֹרָה וּלְהַקְדִּים בְּרִית לְתוֹרָה. שֶׁהַבְּרִית הַזֹּאת שֶׁאוֹמְרִים בְּבִרְכַּת הָאָרֶץ הִיא בְּרִית מִילָה שֶׁנִּכְרְתוּ עָלֶיהָ שְׁלֹשׁ עֶשְׂרֵה בְּרִיתוֹת וְהַתּוֹרָה כֻּלָּהּ נִכְרְתוּ עָלֶיהָ שָׁלֹשׁ בְּרִיתוֹת שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברים כח סט) ״אֵלֶּה דִבְרֵי הַבְּרִית״ וְגוֹ׳‎, (דברים כח סט) ״מִלְּבַד הַבְּרִית אֲשֶׁר כָּרַת אִתָּם בְּחֹרֵב״, (דברים כט ט) ״אַתֶּם נִצָּבִים״ וְגוֹ׳‎ (דברים כט יא) ״לְעָבְרְךָ בִּבְרִית״ וְגוֹ׳‎:
The blessing for Eretz Yisrael should include an acknowledgement of thanks [to God] at its beginning and at its conclusion. It should conclude: "[Blessed are You, God,] for the land and for the sustenance." Whoever does not include the phrase "a precious, good, and spacious land" in the blessing for Eretz Yisrael does not fulfill his obligation.
A person must mention the covenant [of circumcision] and the Torah [in this blessing], mentioning the covenant before the Torah. [The reason for this order is] that the covenant mentioned in the blessing for Eretz Yisrael refers to the covenant of circumcision, concerning which thirteen covenants [are mentioned in the Torah]. In contrast, [the Torah mentions only] three covenants with regard to the Torah, as [Deuteronomy 28:69] states: "These are the words of the covenant... in addition to the covenant He established with you at Chorev," and [Deuteronomy 29:9-11] states: "You are standing... to establish a covenant."
בְּרָכָה שְׁלִישִׁית פּוֹתֵחַ בָּהּ רַחֵם יְיָ׳‎ אֱלֹהֵינוּ עָלֵינוּ וְעַל יִשְׂרָאֵל עַמֶּךָ וְעַל יְרוּשָׁלַיִם עִירֶךָ וְעַל צִיּוֹן מִשְׁכַּן כְּבוֹדֶךָ. אוֹ נַחֲמֵנוּ יְיָ׳‎ אֱלֹהֵינוּ בִּירוּשָׁלַיִם עִירֶךָ וְחוֹתֵם בָּהּ בּוֹנֵה יְרוּשָׁלָיִם אוֹ מְנַחֵם עַמּוֹ יִשְׂרָאֵל בְּבִנְיַן יְרוּשָׁלָיִם. וּלְפִיכָךְ נִקְרֵאת בְּרָכָה זוֹ נֶחָמָה. וְכָל מִי שֶׁלֹּא אָמַר מַלְכוּת בֵּית דָּוִד בִּבְרָכָה זוֹ לֹא יָצָא יְדֵי חוֹבָתוֹ מִפְּנֵי שֶׁהִיא עִנְיַן הַבְּרָכָה, שֶׁאֵין נֶחָמָה גְּמוּרָה אֶלָּא בַּחֲזָרַת מַלְכוּת בֵּית דָּוִד:
The third blessing begins as follows: "Have mercy on us, God, our Lord, and on Israel, Your people, on Jerusalem, Your city, and on Zion, the abode of Your glory..." Alternatively, it begins: "Comfort us, God, our Lord, with Jerusalem, Your city...."
One should conclude: "[Blessed are You, God,] who will build Jerusalem," or "...who will comfort His people Israel with the building of Jerusalem." For this reason, this blessing is referred to as "the blessing of comfort."
Whoever does not mention the kingdom of the House of David in this blessing does not fulfill his obligation, because it is an essential element of the blessing. There will be no complete comfort until the return of the sovereignty to the House of David.
מִי שֶׁאָכַל וְשָׁכַח וְלֹא בֵּרֵךְ. אִם נִזְכַּר קֹדֶם שֶׁיִּתְעַכֵּל הַמַּאֲכָל שֶׁבְּמֵעָיו חוֹזֵר וּמְבָרֵךְ. נִתְעַכֵּל הַמָּזוֹן שֶׁבְּמֵעָיו אֵינוֹ חוֹזֵר וּמְבָרֵךְ. וְכֵן אִם נֶעֱלַם מִמֶּנּוּ וְלֹא יָדַע אִם בֵּרֵךְ אוֹ לֹא בֵּרֵךְ חוֹזֵר וּמְבָרֵךְ וְהוּא שֶׁלֹּא נִתְעַכֵּל הַמָּזוֹן שֶׁבְּמֵעָיו:
[The following rules apply to] a person who ate and forgot to recite grace: If he remembers before his food becomes digested, he should return and recite grace. If he remembers after his food becomes digested, he should not return and recite grace.
If a person forgets and is unsure whether he recited grace or not, he must return and recite grace, provided his food has not become digested.
כָּל שֶׁמְּבָרְכִין עָלָיו בַּתְּחִלָּה הַמּוֹצִיא מְבָרְכִין לְאַחֲרָיו בַּסּוֹף בִּרְכַּת הַמָּזוֹן כְּסִדְרָהּ אַרְבַּע בְּרָכוֹת. וְכָל שֶׁמְּבָרְכִין עָלָיו בַּתְּחִלָּה בּוֹרֵא מִינֵי מְזוֹנוֹת מְבָרְכִין בַּסּוֹף לְאַחֲרָיו בְּרָכָה אַחַת מֵעֵין שָׁלֹשׁ חוּץ מִן הָאֹרֶז:
Whenever the blessing hamotzi is recited before [partaking of a food], the four blessings of grace are recited afterwards in their proper order. Whenever the blessing borey minei mezonot is recited before [partaking of a food], a single blessing, which includes the three [blessings of grace], is recited afterward, except when one eats rice.
בַּמֶּה דְּבָרִים אֲמוּרִים שֶׁאָכַל מִכְּזַיִת וּלְמַעְלָה אֲבָל אָכַל פָּחוֹת מִכְּזַיִת בֵּין מִן הַפַּת בֵּין מִשְּׁאָר אוֹכְלִין. וְהַשּׁוֹתֶה פָּחוֹת מֵרְבִיעִית בֵּין מִן הַיַּיִן בֵּין מִשְּׁאָר מַשְׁקִין. מְבָרֵךְ בַּתְּחִלָּה בְּרָכָה הָרְאוּיָה לְאוֹתוֹ הַמִּין וּלְבַסּוֹף אֵינוֹ מְבָרֵךְ כְּלָל:
When does the above apply? When a person ate more than the size of an olive [from these foods]. If, however, he ate less than the size of an olive, whether from bread or from other food, or drank less than a revi'it, whether from wine or from other beverages, he should recite the appropriate blessing before partaking of the food or drink, but should not recite any blessing at all afterward.
כָּל הַמְבָרֵךְ בִּרְכַּת הַמָּזוֹן אוֹ בְּרָכָה אַחַת מֵעֵין שָׁלֹשׁ צָרִיךְ לְבָרֵךְ אוֹתָהּ בַּמָּקוֹם שֶׁאָכַל. אָכַל כְּשֶׁהוּא מְהַלֵּךְ יוֹשֵׁב בְּמָקוֹם שֶׁפָּסַק וִיבָרֵךְ. אָכַל כְּשֶׁהוּא עוֹמֵד יוֹשֵׁב בִּמְקוֹמוֹ וִיבָרֵךְ. שָׁכַח לְבָרֵךְ בִּרְכַּת הַמָּזוֹן וְנִזְכַּר קֹדֶם שֶׁיִּתְעַכֵּל הַמָּזוֹן שֶׁבְּמֵעָיו מְבָרֵךְ בַּמָּקוֹם שֶׁנִּזְכַּר. וְאִם הָיָה מֵזִיד חוֹזֵר לִמְקוֹמוֹ וּמְבָרֵךְ. וְאִם בֵּרֵךְ בַּמָּקוֹם שֶׁנִּזְכַּר יָצָא יְדֵי חוֹבָתוֹ. וְכֵן אִם בֵּרֵךְ כְּשֶׁהוּא עוֹמֵד אוֹ כְּשֶׁהוּא מְהַלֵּךְ יָצָא יְדֵי חוֹבָתוֹ. וּלְכַתְּחִלָּה לֹא יְבָרֵךְ בִּרְכַּת הַמָּזוֹן וְלֹא בְּרָכָה שֶׁמֵּעֵין שָׁלֹשׁ אֶלָּא כְּשֶׁהוּא יוֹשֵׁב וּבַמָּקוֹם שֶׁאָכַל:
Everyone who recites grace or the single blessing that includes the three [blessings of grace] should recite these blessings in the place where he ate. If he ate while walking, he should sit down where he concluded eating and recite the blessings. If he ate while standing, he should sit down in his place and recite grace.
If a person forgets to recite grace and remembers before his food becomes digested, he may recite grace in the place where he remembers. If he intentionally [did not recite grace in the place where he ate], he should return to his place and recite grace. Should he recite grace in the place where he remembers, he fulfills his obligation.
Similarly, a person who recites grace while standing or while walking fulfills his obligation. Nevertheless, at the outset, a person should not recite grace or the single blessing which includes the three [blessings of grace] except when he is seated in the place where he ate.
נָשִׁים וַעֲבָדִים חַיָּבִין בְּבִרְכַּת הַמָּזוֹן. וְסָפֵק יֵשׁ בַּדָּבָר אִם הֵן חַיָּבִין מִן הַתּוֹרָה לְפִי שֶׁאֵין קָבוּעַ לָהּ זְמַן אוֹ אֵינָם חַיָּבִין מִן הַתּוֹרָה. לְפִיכָךְ אֵין מוֹצִיאִין אֶת הַגְּדוֹלִים יְדֵי חוֹבָתָן. אֲבָל הַקְּטַנִּים חַיָּבִין בְּבִרְכַּת הַמָּזוֹן מִדִּבְרֵי סוֹפְרִים כְּדֵי לְחַנְּכָן בְּמִצְוֹת:
Women and slaves are obligated to recite grace. There is a doubt whether their obligation stems from the Torah, since [this is a positive mitzvah] that is not linked to a specific time, or whether their obligation does not stem from the Torah. Therefore, they should not fulfill the obligation of grace on behalf of others. Children, however, are obligated to recite grace by virtue of Rabbinic decree, in order to educate them to perform mitzvot.