Commandment 22 - To Do What You Say
(כד) מוֹצָ֥א שְׂפָתֶ֖יךָ תִּשְׁמֹ֣ר וְעָשִׂ֑יתָ כַּאֲשֶׁ֨ר נָדַ֜רְתָּ לַיי אֱלֹקֶ֙יךָ֙ נְדָבָ֔ה אֲשֶׁ֥ר דִּבַּ֖רְתָּ בְּפִֽיךָ׃ {ס}
(24) You must fulfill what has crossed your lips and perform what you have voluntarily vowed to your God יי, having made the promise with your own mouth.
תָּנוּ רַבָּנַן: ״מוֹצָא שְׂפָתֶיךָ״ — זוֹ מִצְוַת עֲשֵׂה, ״תִּשְׁמוֹר״ — זוֹ מִצְוַת לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה, ״וְעָשִׂיתָ״ — אַזְהָרָה לְבֵית דִּין שֶׁיְּעַשּׂוּךְ, ״כַּאֲשֶׁר נָדַרְתָּ״ — זֶה נֶדֶר, ״לַה׳ אֱלֹהֶיךָ״ — אֵלּוּ חַטָּאוֹת וַאֲשָׁמוֹת עוֹלוֹת וּשְׁלָמִים, ״נְדָבָה״ — כְּמַשְׁמָעוֹ, ״אֲשֶׁר דִּבַּרְתָּ״ — אֵלּוּ קׇדְשֵׁי בֶּדֶק הַבַּיִת, ״בְּפִיךְ״ — זוֹ צְדָקָה.
§ The Sages taught in a baraita: The verse states: “That which is gone out of your lips you shall keep and do; as you have vowed as a gift to the Lord your God, which you have promised with your mouth” (Deuteronomy 23:24). “That which is gone out of your lips”; this is a positive mitzva. “You shall keep”; this is a prohibition, as the phrase “you shall keep” is a warning to keep oneself from sinning. “And do”; this is an admonition to the court to make you fulfill your vow. “As you have vowed”; this is referring to a vow-offering. “To the Lord your God”; this is referring to sin-offerings, guilt-offerings, burnt-offerings, and peace-offerings, teaching that one must keep his word and bring them. “As a gift”; this is understood in its literal sense to be referring to a gift-offering. “Which you have promised”; this is referring to objects consecrated for Temple maintenance. “With your mouth”; this is referring to vows of charity, to which one commits himself with his mouth.
היא שצונו לקיים כל מה שקבלנו על נפשנו בדבור משבועה ונדר וצדקה והקרבן וזולת זה, והוא אמרו יתעלה מוצא שפתיך תשמור, ואף על פי שחלקו מלות זה הפסוק ושמו כל מלה ממנו לענין אמנם הכוונה המגעת מכל מה שזכרתי לך שמצות עשה היא לקיים כל מה שהאדם מחייב על נפשו באי זה דבר שיהיה מהדברים והעובר עליו עובר על מצות לא תעשה. והנה אבאר זה בזכרי מצות לא תעשה. ובספרי מוצא שפתיך מצות עשה ואתה יודע שאין שום ענין יוצא מדבור מוצא לבד, ואמנם הכוונה מה שזכרתי לך להבין פשטיה דקרא שצוה לעשות מה שהוציא בשפתיו. והנה נכפל הצווי במצוה זו, והוא אמרו ככל היוצא מפיו יעשה. וכבר התבארו משפטי מצוה זו במקומות רבים, בשבועות ובסוף מנחות ומסכת קנים גם כן, כלומר ששם הדקדוק להזהיר האדם לעשות הדבר שחייב נפשו ואיך יפטר נפשו ועצמו כשיפול ספק במה שאמר. (כי תצא, הפלאה):
That is that we were commanded to fulfill everything that we we take upon ourselves in speech, whether in an oath, a vow, charity, a sacrifice or anything else besides them. And that is His, may He be exalted, saying, "What issues from your lips shall you observe" (Deuteronomy 23:24). And even though they have already separated the words of this verse and arranged each word of it for various content, the intention that nevertheless comes out of all that [they] said to you is that it is a positive commandment for a person to fulfill everything that he accepts upon himself, whatever it may be. And one who violates it, [also] violates a negative commandment; and behold I will explain this in my mention of the negative commandments (Sefer HaMitzvot, Negative Commandments 157). And in the Sifrei (Sifrei Devarim 265:2): "'What issues from your lips' is a positive commandment." And you know that there is no content to the statement, "what issues," alone. However the intention is that which I mentioned to you - to understand the simple meaning of the verse, that He commanded to do what one puts out with his mouth. And behold that this commandment is repeated; and that is His saying, "according to all that issues from his mouth shall he do" (Numbers 30:3). And the regulations of this commandment have already been explained in many places - in Shevuot, in the end of Menachot and in Tractate Kinnim as well. That is to say that the specifics of concerning oneself to do the thing that one has obligated oneself; and how one exempts oneself when he has a doubt about what he said, is found there. (See Parashat Ki Tetzeh; Mishneh Torah, Sefer Haflaah.)
אִישׁ֩ כִּֽי־יִדֹּ֨ר נֶ֜דֶר לַֽיי אֽוֹ־הִשָּׁ֤בַע שְׁבֻעָה֙ לֶאְסֹ֤ר אִסָּר֙ עַל־נַפְשׁ֔וֹ לֹ֥א יַחֵ֖ל דְּבָר֑וֹ כְּכׇל־הַיֹּצֵ֥א מִפִּ֖יו יַעֲשֶֽׂה׃
If a householder makes a vow to יי or takes an oath imposing an obligation on himself, he shall not break his pledge; he must carry out all that has crossed his lips.
מִי שֶׁנָּדַר נְדָרִים כְּדֵי לְכוֹנֵן דֵּעוֹתָיו וּלְתַקֵּן מַעֲשָׂיו הֲרֵי זֶה זָרִיז וּמְשֻׁבָּח. כֵּיצַד. כְּגוֹן מִי שֶׁהָיָה זוֹלֵל וְאָסַר עָלָיו הַבָּשָׂר שָׁנָה אוֹ שְׁתַּיִם. אוֹ מִי שֶׁהָיָה שׁוֹגֶה בַּיַּיִן וְאָסַר הַיַּיִן עַל עַצְמוֹ זְמַן מְרֻבֶּה. אוֹ אָסַר הַשִּׁכְרוּת לְעוֹלָם. וְכֵן מִי שֶׁהָיָה רוֹדֵף שַׁלְמוֹנִים וְנִבְהָל לְהוֹן וְאָסַר עַל עַצְמוֹ הַמַּתָּנוֹת אוֹ הֲנָיַת אַנְשֵׁי מְדִינָה זוֹ. וְכֵן מִי שֶׁהָיָה מִתְגָּאֶה בְּיָפְיוֹ וְנָדַר בְּנָזִיר וְכַיּוֹצֵא בִּנְדָרִים אֵלּוּ. כֻּלָּן דֶּרֶךְ עֲבוֹדָה לַשֵּׁם הֵם. וּבִנְדָרִים אֵלּוּ וְכַיּוֹצֵא בָּהֶן אָמְרוּ חֲכָמִים נְדָרִים סְיָג לִפְרִישׁוּת:
When a person takes vows in order to establish his character traits and correct his conduct, he is considered eager and praiseworthy. What is implied? If a person was a glutton and he [took a vow] forbidding meat for a year or two, a person was obsessed with wine and he [took a vow] forbidding himself from drinking wine for a prolonged period or he forbade himself from ever becoming intoxicated, a person would continually pursue illicit gain and was overexcited about wealth [took a vow] forbidding [accepting] presents or benefit from people in a particular country, similarly, a person who would be proud of his comely appearance and took a nazirite vow, or the like - all of these are paths in the service of God and concerning such vows and the like our Sages said: "Vows are a safeguard for restraint."
וְאַף עַל פִּי שֶׁהֵן עֲבוֹדָה (לַשֵּׁם) לֹא יַרְבֶּה אָדָם בְּנִדְרֵי אִסּוּר וְלֹא יַרְגִּיל עַצְמוֹ בָּהֶם. אֶלָּא יִפְרשׁ מִדְּבָרִים שֶׁרָאוּי לִפְרשׁ מֵהֶן בְּלֹא נֵדֶר:
Although [taking vows] is an element of the service of God, a person should not take many vows involving prohibitions and should not habituate himself to taking them. Instead, he should abstain from those things from which one should abstain without taking a vow.
אָמְרוּ חֲכָמִים (גמרא נדרים נט א) "כָּל הַנּוֹדֵר כְּאִלּוּ בָּנָה בָּמָה". וְאִם עָבַר וְנָדַר מִצְוָה לְהִשָּׁאֵל עַל נִדְרוֹ כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא יְהֵא מִכְשׁוֹל לְפָנָיו. בַּמֶּה דְּבָרִים אֲמוּרִים בְּנִדְרֵי אִסָּר. אֲבָל נִדְרֵי הֶקְדֵּשׁ מִצְוָה לְקַיְּמָן וְלֹא יִשָּׁאֵל עֲלֵיהֶן אֶלָּא מִדֹּחַק שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהילים קטז יד) (תהילים קטז יח) "נְדָרַי לַיי אֲשַׁלֵּם": סְלִיקוּ לְהוּ הִלְכוֹת נְדָרִים בְּסִיַעְתָּא דִּשְׁמַיָּא
Our Sages stated: "Anyone who takes a vow is considered as having built a private altar." If he transgressed and took a vow, it is a mitzvah to ask [a sage] to absolve it, so that he will not have an obstacle before him.
When does the above apply? With regard to vows involving prohibitions. With regard to vows involving the consecration of articles, it is a mitzvah to uphold them and not to ask for their absolution unless one is [financially] pressed, as [Psalms 116:14] states: "I will fulfill my vows to God."
איחר אדם נדרו פנקסו נפתחת:
A person who delays their vow, their notebook is opened.
צריך ליזהר שלא ידור שום דבר ואפי' צדקה אין טוב לידור אלא אם ישנו בידו יתן מיד ואם לאו לא ידור עד שיהיה לו ואם פוסקים צדקה וצריך לפסוק עמהם יאמר בלא נדר:
One should be careful not to vow in any matter. Even tzedaka should not be vowed; rather, if one has what to give, they should immediately give it, and if not, they should not vow until they have it. And if one is part of the tzedaka-distribution process, it should be done while stating "This is not a vow!"
האומר אשנה פרק זה וירא שמא יתרשל בדבר שרי ליה למנדר לזרוזי נפשיה וכן אם ירא שיתקפו יצרו ויעבור על איזו מצוה ממצות לא תעשה או יתרשל מקיום מצות עשה מצוה לישבע ולנדור כדי לזרז עצמו:
A person who says "I will learn this perek, and is afraid lest they become negligent in this matter, it is appropriate for them to vow in order to quicken themselves. And so, if one is afraid that their [evil] inclination will attack them and they will transgress any commandment of the negative commandments, or become negligent in the fulfilment of a positive commandment, it is a commandment for that person to vow in order to quicken themself.
מִי שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן לִשְׁבוּעָה וְגָמַר בְּלִבּוֹ שֶׁלֹּא יֹאכַל הַיּוֹם אוֹ שֶׁלֹּא יִשְׁתֶּה וְשֶׁדָּבָר זֶה אָסוּר עָלָיו בִּשְׁבוּעָה וְלֹא הוֹצִיא בִשְׂפָתָיו הֲרֵי זֶה מֻתָּר שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ויקרא ה ד) "לְבַטֵּא בִּשְׂפָתַיִם". אֵין הַנִּשְׁבָּע חַיָּב עַד שֶׁיּוֹצִיא עִנְיַן שְׁבוּעָה בִּשְׂפָתָיו:
[Although] a person has the intent to take an oath and resolves in his heart not to eat on that day or not to drink and has the intent for that activity to be forbidden for him by oath, [if] he does not actually make such a statement, he is permitted [to eat or drink], as [implied by Leviticus 5:4]: "expressing with his lips." [Implied is that] a person who takes an oath is not liable until he explicitly states the matter the oath concerns with his lips.
וְאֵין הַנּוֹדֵר נֶאֱסָר בְּדָבָר שֶׁאָסַר עַל עַצְמוֹ עַד שֶׁיּוֹצִיא בִּשְׂפָתָיו וְיִהְיֶה פִּיו וְלִבּוֹ שָׁוִין כְּמוֹ שֶׁבֵּאַרְנוּ בִּשְׁבוּעוֹת. אֲבָל הַמִּתְכַּוֵּן לִנְדֹּר בְּנָזִיר וְנָדַר בְּקָרְבָּן. בְּקָרְבָּן וְנָדַר בְּנָזִיר. בִּשְׁבוּעָה וְנָדַר. אוֹ שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן לִנְדֹּר וְנִשְׁבַּע. אוֹ שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן לוֹמַר תְּאֵנִים וְאָמַר עֲנָבִים. הֲרֵי זֶה מֻתָּר בִּשְׁנֵיהֶם וְאֵין כָּאן נֵדֶר:
A person who takes an oath is not forbidden [to partake of] the entity which he forbade to himself until he makes a verbal statement to that effect and his statements must match his intent, as we explained with regard to oaths.
If, by contrast, one intended to take a nazirite vow and instead, vowed to bring a sacrifice, [intended to vow to bring] a sacrifice and instead, took a nazirite [vow], [intended to take] an oath and instead, [took] a vow, [intended to take] a vow and instead, [took] an oath, intended to say "figs" and instead, said "grapes," both are permitted to him. There is no vow.