Transcending In Torah
Intros: Name, pronouns, 1. How has G-d’s gender been presented to you in your Jewish education 2. Whether you believe in G-d or not, what do *you* think G-d’s gender is, or would be?
Bereshit 1:27
And G-d created man in His own image, in the image of God created him; male and female, He created them.
וַיִּבְרָ֨א אֱלֹ קים ׀ אֶת־הָֽאָדָם֙ בְּצַלְמ֔וֹ בְּצֶ֥לֶם אֱלֹהים בָּרָ֣א אֹת֑וֹ זָכָ֥ר וּנְקֵבָ֖ה בָּרָ֥א אֹתָֽם׃
If Adam (they/them) was created in the image of G-d, what does this verse teach us about G-d’s image?
Reading God and Torah: The Soul of the Stranger From a Transgender Perspective, by Joy Ladin, transgender Torah scholar & activist
God never mistook me for the body others saw. God knew who I truly was, and understood how alone I felt, because God, like me, had no body to make God visible, no face human beings could see…
But I was alone with God. All the things that cut me off from other people-- my lack of a body that felt like mine, my inability to fit into gender categories, my sense of being utterly, unspeakably different-- made me feel closer to God. God knew who and what I was. God had created me, fitting my mismatched body and soul together. God was always there, day and night, as I tried to live and sometimes tried to die. We were an odd couple, me struggling with my body that didn't feel like mine, God existing beyond all that is, was, and will be. But when it came to relating to human beings, God and I had something in common: neither of us could be seen or understood by those we dwelt among and loved...
And so, for as long as I can remember, being transgender has brought me closer to God. That may seem strange. Both religious and nonreligious people tend to think of transgender identities as inherently secular. But there are many religious people whose relationships with God have been profoundly shaped by being transgender because, as they wrestled with suffering, isolation, and questions about who they were and how they should live, they, like other religious peope, turned to God for the understanding they couldn’t find among human beings...
~Chevruta time~
Bereishit Rabbah 8:1
(1) And G-d said: Let us make Adam in our image, in our shape: R' Yirmiyah ben Elazar said, when G-d created Adam HaRishon, he was created as both genders; thus is it written, "male and female did He create them." R' Shmuel bar Nachman said, when G-d created Adam HaRishon, He created him with two faces, one on each side, and [when He made Eve,] He split him along the middle, forming two backs. They challenged him: but it is written, "And He took one of his ribs!" He said to them, ["mitzalosav" doesn't mean rib, it means] one of his sides, similar to that which is said, "and to the 'tzela' of the Mishkan," which is translated "the side of the Mishkan."
(א) ויאמר אלהים נעשה אדם בצלמנו כדמותנו. אמר רבי ירמיה בן אלעזר: בשעה שברא הקדוש ברוך הוא את אדם הראשון, אנדרוגינוס בראו, הדא הוא דכתיב: זכר ונקבה בראם. אמר רבי שמואל בר נחמן: בשעה שברא הקב"ה את אדם הראשון, דיו פרצופים בראו ונסרו ועשאו גביים, גב לכאן וגב לכאן. איתיבון ליה, והכתיב: ויקח אחת מצלעותיו?! אמר להון: מתרין סטרוהי, היך מה דאת אמר: (שמות כו): ולצלע המשכן, דמתרגמינן ולסטר משכנא וגו'.
How does this differ from the more commonly taught creation story? What does it mean that Adam’s body is being compared to the Mishkan?
Rabbi Noam Lerman
Without consent, G-d forces Adam into a deep sleep, and rips part of Adam apart in order to create a partner. The part which is taken from Adam’s body is called a צלה, which is a word mentioned one other time in Shemot 26:20. צלה is used to describe one complete side of the mishkan, which is equal to all 4 other sides of the mishkan. From this, one can assess that just like the mishkan, we humans have sides which contain sparks of G-d within. The word צלה implies that it was not a small rib which was taken from Adam’s body to form another, but rather a complete whole and equal side which was extracted to create another separate being to be Adam’s partner.
Do you agree that G-d non-consensually split Adam? What do you think about this? Why didn’t G-d form Chava (Eve) from the earth and breathe life into her like G-d had done for Adam?
Rabbi Elliot Kukla, Reform Devises Sex-Change Blessings
The Midrash, classical Jewish exegesis, adds that the [first human] being formed in G-d's likeness, was an androgynous, an inter-sexed, person . . . Hence, our tradition teaches that all bodies and genders are created in G-d's image, whether we identify as men, women, inter-sex, or something else.
Mishnah Bikkurim 4:1-5
(1) An Androginus (most likely - someone who has both male and female reproductive organs) is similar to men in some ways, and to women in other ways, in some ways to both, and in some ways to neither. (5) Rabbi Meir Says: Androginus is a (gender) category of its own, (because) the rabbis could not decipher whatever s/he/they is a man or a women. However a Tumtum is not so, as at times s/he/they is fully male, and at times s/he/they is fully female (but we can't tell which).
(א) אנדוגינוס יש בו דרכים שוה לאנשים ויש בו דרכים שוה לנשים ויש בו דרכים שוה לאנשים ונשים ויש בו דרכים אינו שוה לא לאנשים ולא לנשים: (ה) רבי מאיר אומר אנדרוגינוס בריה בפני עצמה הוא ולא יכלו חכמים להכריע עליו אם הוא איש או אשה אבל טומטום אינו כן פעמים שהוא איש פעמים שהוא אשה:
Rabbi Julia Watts-Belser, Balancing on the Mechitza, p. 238
In a binary gender system, in which beings are either ultimately male or female (with no crossing over the line!), a Divine Being that is male, female, and trans at one and the same time would pose a serious logical problem. But when we recognize that binary gender is a limited cultural construction that tangles up human and holy truths all the time, then my three realities can live together in all their brilliant, paradoxical complexity. Just as human genders come in a variety of expressions, divine gender is not a stable, reified finality. Jewish tradition speaks of God in masculine, feminine, and non gendered ways: as Tsur (Rock), and HaMakom (The Place), alongside Melekh (king) and Av Harachaman (compassionate father), Rather than splitting off the feminine from the masculine and declaring them distinct and separate spheres, Jewish affirmations of divine unity and wholeness suggest that God is Goddess. A Goddess who is God who is Goddess.
~End of Chevruta time~
Bereshit 2:18-24
(18) And G-d said: ‘It is not good that the Man should be alone; I will make a help mate for him.’ (21) And G-d caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; and He took one of his sides, and closed up the place with flesh instead thereof. (22) And the rib, which G-d had taken from the man, He made into a woman, and brought her unto the man. (24) Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife, and they shall be one flesh.
(יח) וַיֹּ֙אמֶר֙ יהוה אֱלֹהִ֔ים לֹא־ט֛וֹב הֱי֥וֹת הָֽאָדָ֖ם לְבַדּ֑וֹ אֶֽעֱשֶׂהּ־לּ֥וֹ עֵ֖זֶר כְּנֶגְדּֽוֹ׃ (כא) וַיַּפֵּל֩ יהוה אֱלֹהִ֧ים ׀ תַּרְדֵּמָ֛ה עַל־הָאָדָ֖ם וַיִּישָׁ֑ן וַיִּקַּ֗ח אַחַת֙ מִצַּלְעֹתָ֔יו וַיִּסְגֹּ֥ר בָּשָׂ֖ר תַּחְתֶּֽנָּה׃ (כב) וַיִּבֶן֩ יהוה אֱלֹהִ֧ים ׀ אֶֽת־הַצֵּלָ֛ע אֲשֶׁר־לָקַ֥ח מִן־הָֽאָדָ֖ם לְאִשָּׁ֑ה וַיְבִאֶ֖הָ אֶל־הָֽאָדָֽם׃ (כד) עַל־כֵּן֙ יַֽעֲזָב־אִ֔ישׁ אֶת־אָבִ֖יו וְאֶת־אִמּ֑וֹ וְדָבַ֣ק בְּאִשְׁתּ֔וֹ וְהָי֖וּ לְבָשָׂ֥ר אֶחָֽד׃
Rabbi Noam Lerman
Why does G-d wish to locate a partner for Adam to begin with? What does it mean that in order to find Adam’s missing mate, G-d needed to violently and painfully split Adam’s perfect whole body into two equal parts, and seal the back-sides with skin? Perhaps G-d knew that as a unified, whole, and balanced being, Adam held much more power and was 100% in G-d’s image and likeness. When Adam was split, longing for wholeness was created, and Adam became incomplete until Adam is to be reunited with the other half. Many humans look for a complete and whole feeling of love and balance in partnership, rather than striving towards personal wholeness, self-love, and building up their internal self-balance. Perhaps this splitting of Adam was the first golus, the first exile. It mirrors the Kabbalistic concept of the Shekhina, G-d’s feminine side, being disconnected from Hashem, oftentimes associated with G-d’s masculine side.
Degel Machaneh Ephraim, translation by Rabbi Abby Stein
In every generation, the scholars (of that generation) are making up [alternative translation: are finishing, or filling up] the Torah, because the Torah is being interpreted in every generations according to the needs of that generation And according to the source of their souls - so is God enlightening the eyes of the wise people of that generation, in Its holy Torah.
או יאמר, זה ספר תולדות אדם.) וכן בכל דור ודורשיו הם משלימין התורה, כי התורה נדרשת בכל דור ודור לפי מה שצריך לאותו דור. ולפי שורש כשמתן של אותו הדור, כך השי"ת מאיר עיני חכמי הדור ההוא בתורתו הקדושה. והכופר בזה, ג״כ כאילו כופר בתורת ח"ו.
אמר הצעיר חיים בכ״ה יוסף ויטאל זלה״ה ראיתי בני עליי׳ והם מועטים משתוקקים לעלות, והסולם נתעלם מעיניהם ויתבוננו בספרי הקדמונים לחפש ולמצוא אורחות חיים את הדרך ילכו בה ואת המעשה אשר יעשון להעלות נפשם אל שרשם העליון ולדבקה בו ית׳ כי הוא השלימות הנצחי כענין הנביאים שכל ימיהם נדבקו בקונם ומאמצעות הדבקות ההיא שרתה עליהם רוח הקודש להורותם איזה הדרך ישכון אור להאיר עיניהם ברזי תורה כמ״ש דוד המלך ע״ה גל עיני ואביטה נפלאות מתורתך, להדריכם בדרך ישרה ללכת אל עיר מושב המזומן להם עם בני עלי׳ ע״ש,
“Thus says the young one, Hayyim son of Joseph Vital: I have seen people of ascent [bnai aliyah], few in number, desiring to rise; yet the ladder is hidden from their eyes. They examine the ancient works, searching for the paths of life, ‘the way they should go and the actions they should do’ to rise up to their supernal roots and cleave to Him, may He be blessed. For that is the ultimate perfection, as did the prophets, who cleaved unto their Creator their entire lives, and the Holy Spirit rested upon them via that cleaving to instruct them as to the path wherein the light resides, to illuminate their eyes in the secrets of the Torah. As King David said, ‘uncover my eyes and I will see wonders from your Torah,’ to direct them in the proper path towards the place prepared for them with the bnai aliyah…”

