The Divine Embrace of the Sukkah: Full Moon of Tishrei 5786
Created for My Jewish Learning’s Chodesh Circle, 2025 - 5786 Sukkot as a culmination of the holidays of Tishrei - an opportunity for integration, harvest and basking in divine and human love.

(ד) מׇשְׁכֵ֖נִי אַחֲרֶ֣יךָ נָּר֑וּצָה הֱבִיאַ֨נִי הַמֶּ֜לֶךְ חֲדָרָ֗יו נָגִ֤ילָה וְנִשְׂמְחָה֙ בָּ֔ךְ נַזְכִּ֤ירָה דֹדֶ֙יךָ֙ מִיַּ֔יִן מֵישָׁרִ֖ים אֲהֵבֽוּךָ׃ {פ}

(4) Draw me after you, let us run! The king has brought me to his chambers. Let us delight and rejoice in your love, Savoring it more than wine— Like new wine they love you!

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Setting: The Epichorus

Existential Considerations

Rabbi Peleh Ezrahi: Chagigah - Turning the Jewish Holidays Into Transformational Celebrations
Rosh HaShana is a wellspring. She who sits next to the wellspring has the opportunity to color the waters of the entire stream. The origin-point that is Rosh HaShana is just one such point: we can come into contact with time itself at its origin-point, the place where it emanates from the concealed into the revealed.
Rosh HaShanah means asking ourselves what is truly important. What is truly important on Rosh HaShanah is asking ourselves what is truly important. What truly matters to us in life?
Obviously we all want to be healthy and to have sufficient income, but that is not enough. The Big Question of Rosh HaShanah is: What am I really living for?
A story is told about a Buddhist monk who had managed to save 10 rupees. With five rupees he bought a loaf of bread, and with the other five he bought himself a mango. They asked him: “What’s with the mango? Isn’t that a waste of money?”
The monk picked up the bread and said: “From this I live.”
Then with his other hand he picked up the fruit and said: “For this I live!”
Rosh HaShanah is a special, designated time for each and every one of us to ask ourselves: “What is my mango?”
..…The true essence of Rosh HaShanah is, in the classical phrase, “to accept upon myself the kingdom of Heaven.” But what does this really mean, especially to an ordinary secular person who doesn’t really consider themself to be halachically observant of Torah and mitzvot?
The point is that each of us must accept upon ourselves our unique “kingship.” Consciously and unconsciously we already do this. When I dedicate my life to something, in effect I make this thing my “king.”
If for instance I have dedicated my life to my business, my business becomes like a king to me. When something happens with the business, I must immediately attend to it, for this is the most important thing in my life. Everything else may be pushed aside - family, my spiritual life, or other things I love doing, because “the business needs it,” or in other words “the king requires it.” If my life is devoted to my family, then I have accepted upon myself the sovereignty of the family, and I sometimes find myself neglecting other important needs in my service to my queen: Family.
On Rosh HaShanah we ask: “Who is your king?”What is the thing that in the truth of truths stands at the head of your priorities in life? For the sake of what are you living? We have an idea of a Heavenly Court which checks hearts and allots life to each person. I like to see this as a committee which has received a budget and is responsible for allocating it. This is a combined budget of spiritual and material shefa / life force, together. This committee is interested in apportioning this budget, and they are especially interested that whoever receives this life force should do remarkable things with it. Thus they ask each soul in turn: “We understand that you want life, but to what end? What are you going to do with the shefa which is given you? To what are you devoting your life?”..…
The essence is to understand that each year I must ask myself - from the heavenly place within me - What is your mango for this year? For what are you living?
What, in truth, is the governing principle in my life? What do I in practice allow to rule me?

(כח) וְכׇל־מְלָאכָה֙ לֹ֣א תַעֲשׂ֔וּ בְּעֶ֖צֶם הַיּ֣וֹם הַזֶּ֑ה כִּ֣י י֤וֹם כִּפֻּרִים֙ ה֔וּא לְכַפֵּ֣ר עֲלֵיכֶ֔ם לִפְנֵ֖י ה׳ אֱלֹקֵיכֶֽם׃

(28) you shall do no work on that selfsame b’etzem day. For it is a Day of Atonement, on which expiation is made on your behalf before your God ה׳.

Ramban / Nachmanides on Leviticus 23:28
Similarly in the case of the Day of Atonement, since He had said, “and ye shall afflict your souls, and ye shall bring an offering made by fire unto the Eternal,” and in the section of Acharei Mot (Lev 16) He made the [complete] expiation dependent upon the offerings and on the goat sent [to Azazel], therefore it was necessary to state here, “And ye shall do no manner of work on that very day, for it is a day of atonement” in itself “to make atonement for you,” besides the expiation effected by the offerings..…
בְּגוּפוֹ לְכַפֵּר עֲלֵיכֶם מִלְּבַד כַּפָּרַת הַקָּרְבָּנוֹת..…

בַּזְּמַן הַזֶּה שֶׁאֵין בֵּית הַמִּקְדָּשׁ קַיָּם וְאֵין לָנוּ מִזְבַּח כַּפָּרָה אֵין שָׁם אֶלָּא תְּשׁוּבָה. הַתְּשׁוּבָה מְכַפֶּרֶת עַל כָּל הָעֲבֵרוֹת. …. וְעַצְמוֹ שֶׁל יוֹם הַכִּפּוּרִים מְכַפֵּר לַשָּׁבִים שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ויקרא טז ל) "כִּי בַיּוֹם הַזֶּה יְכַפֵּר עֲלֵיכֶם":

Maimonides:

Teshuvah atones for all sins. …
The essence etzem of Yom Kippur atones for those who repent as [Leviticus 16:30] states: "This day will atone for you."

Sukkah and Chuppah: The Divine Embrace

(כג) וַיֹּ֘אמֶר֮ הָֽאָדָם֒ זֹ֣את הַפַּ֗עַם עֶ֚צֶם מֵֽעֲצָמַ֔י וּבָשָׂ֖ר מִבְּשָׂרִ֑י לְזֹאת֙ יִקָּרֵ֣א אִשָּׁ֔ה כִּ֥י מֵאִ֖ישׁ לֻֽקְחָה־זֹּֽאת׃

(23) Then the Human said, “This one at last Is bone of my bones etzem me’atzamai And flesh of my flesh. This one shall be called Wo/Man, For from Man was she taken.”

Rabbi Dovber Pinson: The Month of Tishrei - A Time of Rebirth and Upward Movement
According to Sefer Yetzirah, the sense connected with Tishrei is tashmish / coition or [sexual] intimacy, and more generally, the sense of touch. The month of Tishrei, the headquarters of the year, imprints upon the entire year. One of the principal qualities that is imprinted is the ‘sense’ of intimacy with the Divine. The development of this sense through the stages of this month moves from commitment, to our engagement, to wedding celebrations, and finally to intimacy and ‘touch’ with the Holy One of Blessing, so to speak…
The progression to intimacy begins with Rosh HaShanah and culminates with the last day of Sukkot and Shmini Atzeret / Simchat Torah. Rosh HaShanah is like the tenayim / engagement ceremony, in which we, the bride, make a formal commitment to our Divine ‘Fiancé.’ On Yom Kippur we call out with abandon, from the depths of our heart and soul, ‘I love You, Hashem! I want to be with You! I want to feel Your presence at every moment!’ Then we get married. During Sukkot we enter into a chuppah/ wedding canopy with the Holy One of Blessing, and celebrate for seven days like sheva brachos, the seven days of ‘Seven Blessings’ rejoicing with the groom and bride.
The halachic minimum enclosure for a kosher sukkah is two whole connected walls, plus a portion of a third wall. Says the AriZal, this is symbolic of an embrace, as in Song of Songs 2:6 “His right arm embraces me.” That is, the two whole walls are like an arm and a chest, and the portion of a third wall is like a hand bent at the wrist, which surrounds us in a hug… When you are embraced in a small, partial hug you are surrounded by a chest, an arm extending around your side, and a hand on your back. A complete hug wraps fully around you, like a full four-walled Sukkah.

וְכֵן הוּא אוֹמֵר: ״צְאֶינָה וּרְאֶינָה בְּנוֹת צִיּוֹן בַּמֶּלֶךְ שְׁלֹמֹה בָּעֲטָרָה שֶׁעִטְּרָה לּוֹ אִמּוֹ בְּיוֹם חֲתֻנָּתוֹ וּבְיוֹם שִׂמְחַת לִבּוֹ״. ״בְּיוֹם חֲתֻנָּתוֹ״ — זֶה מַתַּן תּוֹרָה, ״וּבְיוֹם שִׂמְחַת לִבּוֹ״ — זֶה בִּנְיַן בֵּית הַמִּקְדָּשׁ, שֶׁיִּבָּנֶה בִּמְהֵרָה בְּיָמֵינוּ.

And similarly, it says in another verse: “Go forth, daughters of Zion, and gaze upon King Solomon, upon the crown with which his mother crowned him on the day of his wedding, and on the day of the gladness of his heart” (Song of Songs 3:11). This verse is explained as an allusion to special days: “On the day of his wedding”; this is the giving of the Torah through the second set of tablets on Yom Kippur.

רִבִּי זְעִירָא הֲווֹן בָּעְיָין מַמְנִיתֵיהּ וְלָא בָּעֵי מְקַבֵּל עֲלוֹי. כַּד שְׁמַע הָהֵן תַּנָּיָיא תַנֵּי חָכָם חָתָן נָשִׂיא גְּדוּלָה מְכַפֶּרֶת. קְבִיל עֲלוֹי מַמְנִיתֵיהּ. חָכָם. מִפְּנֵי שֵׂיבָה תָּקוּם וְהָדַרְתָּ פְּנֵי זָקֵן. מַה כְתִיב בַּתְרֵיהּ וְכִי יָגוּר אִתְּכֵם גֵּר בְּאַרְצְכֶם לֹא תוֹנוּ אוֹתוֹ. מַה הַגֵּר מוֹחֲלִין לוֹ עַל כָּל עֲווֹנוֹתָיו אַף חָכָם שֶׁנִּתְמַנֶּה מוֹחֲלִין לוֹ עַל כָּל עֲווֹנוֹתָיו. חָתָן. וַיֵּלֶךְ עֵשָׂיו אֶל יִשְׁמָעֵאל וַיִּקַּח אֶת מָחֲלַת בַּת יִשְׁמָעֵאל. וְכִי מָחֲלַת שְׁמָהּ. וַהֲלֹא בָּשְׂמַת שְׁמָהּ. אֶלָּא שֶׁנִּמְחֲלוּ לוֹ כָּל עֲוֹנוֹתָיו. נָשִׂיא. בֶּן שָׁנָה שָׁאוּל בְּמָלְכוֹ. וְכִי בֶּן שָׁנָה הָיָה. אֶלָּא שֶׁנִּמְחֲלוּ לוֹ כָּל עֲוֹנוֹתָיו כְּתִינּוֹק בֶּן שָׁנָה.

They wanted to ordain Rebbi Zeïra but he did not want to take it upon himself. When he heard a Tanna [bearer of an authoritative older teaching] stating:

“For an ordained person, a bridegroom, a patriarch, the dignity deletes [his sins],” he accepted being ordained. …

The bridegroom: (Gen. 28:9) “Esau went to Ishmael and married Maḥalat bat Ishmael.” But was her name Maḥalat? Was it not Basemat? But all his sins were forgiven him. [Mahal / mehila - forgiveness].

The president: (1S. 13:1) “Saul was one year old when he became king.” Was he one year old when he became king? But all his sins were forgiven him as to a baby of one year.

(כ)וַיֹּ֣אמֶר ה׳ סָלַ֖חְתִּי כִּדְבָרֶֽךָ׃

(20) And ה׳ said, “I pardon, as you have asked.

Melinda Ribner: Living in the Divine Flow - Monthly Spiritual Gifts and Blessings: Tishrei
When we sit in the sukkah we experience our vulnerability but we feel safe because we sense God’s surrounding presence. Life is simple and joyous. We learn directly that all the external structures we build in our lives to protect ourselves from the experience of our vulnerability are unnecessary. Furthermore, they separate us from our true selves, from other people and from God. …

Being in the sukkah is a time of intimacy. The sukkah extends an invitation to be real, totally and authentically oneself, and to welcome others to be fully themselves as well. This intimacy with self and others brings happiness and awakens the child within each of us. Sitting in the sukkah is fun, yet also profound and mystical. The sukkah imparts a deep teaching more powerful than words alone could ever convey: in truth, all human beings are children of the One God, and the world is God’s home.
Rabbi Dovber Pinson: The Month of Tishrei - A Time of Rebirth and Upward Movement
“Yom Kippur comes and we are washed clean and fully atoned. Now comes Sukkos and in a revealed way we sit basking in the Presence and full embrace of the Holy One of Blessing…. On Sukkot we are already home and Hashem is holding us tight and near. The Shechina embraces us in Her loving embrace and is gently telling us, Everything is OK, you are home. I love you, and I will forever protect you.” And thus we feel joy. The Baal Shem Tov teaches that when we enter the sukkah we are like a child running to be protected by their mother. (Maor vaShemesh, Rimzei Yom Bet Sukkot)
Sukkot, Chag ha’Assif, the Feast of Gathering “celebrates the gathering of the produce from the field, which requires much intense work. All of Tishrei is characterized by this idea of ‘producing’ change within ourselves and working to ‘gather’ it in or integrate it. We participate in a process of self-refinement; we do not passively receive the product.”
The Radbaz (R David b Zimra, 1479-1573) says that a full moon reveals everything that has transpired the preceding 14 days of the month: “Whereas the first 14 days of the month are a time of concealed and inward illumination, on the full moon, Sukkos is an outward-moving revelation of everything that has occurred inwardly.” (Metzudas David, Mitzva 117)

Sukkot: A Deeper Freedom

(מב) בַּסֻּכֹּ֥ת תֵּשְׁב֖וּ שִׁבְעַ֣ת יָמִ֑ים כׇּל־הָֽאֶזְרָח֙ בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל יֵשְׁב֖וּ בַּסֻּכֹּֽת׃ (מג) לְמַ֘עַן֮ יֵדְע֣וּ דֹרֹֽתֵיכֶם֒ כִּ֣י בַסֻּכּ֗וֹת הוֹשַׁ֙בְתִּי֙ אֶת־בְּנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל בְּהוֹצִיאִ֥י אוֹתָ֖ם מֵאֶ֣רֶץ מִצְרָ֑יִם אֲנִ֖י ה׳ אֱלֹקֵיכֶֽם׃

(42) You shall live in sukkot seven days; all citizens in Israel shall live in sukkot, (43) in order that future generations may know that I made the Israelite people live in sukkot when I brought them out of the land of Egypt—I, your God ה׳.

Rabbi Jill Hammer: The Jewish Book of Days - 25 Tishrei
Becoming Fruitful
Ephraim and Menasheh, unlike all the other brothers in Genesis, do not quarrel. Instead, both tribes are fruitful, and neither tribe quarrels with the other. Ephraim teaches us not only about reproduction but about how to create families in which there is love and respect. As we enter the ‘days of rain’, we hope for our houses and our most intimate relationships to be places of sanctity, gentleness, and compassion.
Melinda Ribner: Living in the Divine Flow - Monthly Spiritual Gifts and Blessings: Tishrei
Libra as the 7th month connects to the 7th house - balance point between self and community, plus a new capacity and desire to bring balance and harmony into the world. Marriage and relationships are core to the 7th house; Libra is ruled by Venus.
Love is the primary force in the creation and sustenance of the world. Love is the primary force within us and it is what attracts and binds people together in harmony. The month of Tishrei brings people together to renew and strengthen their relationships with each other. Two lammeds face to face look like a heart. “Tishrei is the heart of the year. Like the heart, it distributes the energies for the entire year. Tishrei is the headquarters for the opening of the heart...
Love, love and love some more. Remember that when we leave this physical world, we will be unable to take with us any of the physical possessions we have acquired. We will however take with us the love we have shared in the world. Love without expectation.”

(ו) מִ֣י זֹ֗את עֹלָה֙ מִן־הַמִּדְבָּ֔ר …מְקֻטֶּ֤רֶת מֹר֙ וּלְבוֹנָ֔ה

(6) Who is she that comes up from the desert [Like columns of smoke,] In clouds of myrrh and frankincense, [Of all the powders of the merchant]?

(ו) שְׂמֹאלוֹ֙ תַּ֣חַת לְרֹאשִׁ֔י וִימִינ֖וֹ תְּחַבְּקֵֽנִי׃

(6) His left hand is under my head, His right arm embracing me.

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