The Jewish view on Wine and getting drunk
Explaining wine and the affects on Jews
Source: Compiled from footnotes on Esther Chapter 1 in my commentary of Megillas Esther Explained by Yisroel Dov Levene (Mosaica Press).

(י) בַּיּוֹם֙ הַשְּׁבִיעִ֔י כְּט֥וֹב לֵב־הַמֶּ֖לֶךְ בַּיָּ֑יִן אָמַ֡ר לִ֠מְהוּמָ֠ן בִּזְּתָ֨א חַרְבוֹנָ֜א בִּגְתָ֤א וַאֲבַגְתָא֙ זֵתַ֣ר וְכַרְכַּ֔ס שִׁבְעַת֙ הַסָּ֣רִיסִ֔ים הַמְשָׁ֣רְתִ֔ים אֶת־פְּנֵ֖י הַמֶּ֥לֶךְ אֲחַשְׁוֵרֽוֹשׁ׃

(10) On the seventh day, when the king was merry with wine, he ordered Mehuman, Bizzetha, Harbona, Bigtha, Abagtha, Zethar, and Carcas, the seven eunuchs in attendance on King Ahasuerus,

On the seventh day – this is the last day of the seven day feast and therefore was the climax. It also meant that when the king's heart was merry with wine – the king was more intoxicated as a result of the build-up of many days of wine coupled with his happiness seeing how everything was going according to plan.
How did the king react in such a state? How would Jews react in such a state?
Before coming onto to this, what was wine created for? What is the benefit of getting drunk?

אָמַר רַב חָנָן: לֹא נִבְרָא יַיִן בָּעוֹלָם אֶלָּא לְנַחֵם אֲבֵלִים, וּלְשַׁלֵּם שָׂכָר לָרְשָׁעִים, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: ״תְּנוּ שֵׁכָר לְאוֹבֵד וְיַיִן לְמָרֵי נָפֶשׁ״.

§ The Gemara’s discussion turns to wine in general. Rav Ḥanan says: Wine was created in the world only to comfort mourners in their distress, and to reward the wicked in this world so that they will have no reward left in the World-to-Come, as it is stated: “Give strong drink to him that is ready to perish, and wine to the bitter of soul” (Proverbs 31:6). “Him that is ready to perish” is referring to the wicked, who will perish from this world, while “the bitter of soul” denotes mourners.

This means that when gentiles get drunk not when depressed or in mourning, it is a pleasant feeling and this acts as their reward in this world. Seeing that almost everyone does good days every day, this would explain why some people get drunk regularly.
However, the Gemora says about what happens when they get drunk:

אָמַר רַבִּי חִיָּיא: כׇּל הַמִּתְיַישֵּׁב בְּיֵינוֹ — יֵשׁ בּוֹ דַּעַת שִׁבְעִים זְקֵנִים. ״יַיִן״ נִיתַּן בְּשִׁבְעִים אוֹתִיּוֹת, וְ״סוֹד״ נִיתַּן בְּשִׁבְעִים אוֹתִיּוֹת. נִכְנַס יַיִן — יָצָא סוֹד.

Rabbi Ḥiyya said: Anyone who remains settled of mind after drinking wine, and does not become intoxicated, has an element of the mind-set of seventy Elders. The allusion is: Wine [yayin spelled yod, yod, nun] was given in seventy letters, as the numerological value of the letters comprising the word is seventy, as yod equals ten and nun equals fifty. Similarly, the word secret [sod spelled samekh, vav, dalet] was given in seventy letters, as samekh equals sixty, vav equals six, and dalet equals four. Typically, when wine entered the body, a secret emerged. Whoever does not reveal secrets when he drinks is clearly blessed with a firm mind, like that of seventy Elders.

The topic of conversation turns to reveal what the person desires really are. This was revealed by Achashverosh by this party:

וְכֵן בִּסְעוּדָּתוֹ שֶׁל אוֹתוֹ רָשָׁע, הַלָּלוּ אוֹמְרִים: מָדִיּוֹת נָאוֹת, וְהַלָּלוּ אוֹמְרִים: פָּרְסִיּוֹת נָאוֹת. אָמַר לָהֶם אֲחַשְׁוֵרוֹשׁ: כְּלִי שֶׁאֲנִי מִשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בּוֹ, אֵינוֹ לֹא מָדִיִּי וְלֹא פָּרְסִי אֶלָּא כַּשְׂדִּיִּי, רְצוֹנְכֶם לִרְאוֹתָהּ? אָמְרוּ לוֹ: אִין, וּבִלְבַד שֶׁתְּהֵא עֲרוּמָּה.

The Gemara continues to detail what occurred at the feast. So too, at the feast of that wicked man, Ahasuerus, when the men began to converse, some said: The Median women are the most beautiful, while others said: The Persian women are the most beautiful. Ahasuerus said to them: The vessel that I use, i.e., my wife, is neither Median nor Persian, but rather Chaldean. Do you wish to see her? They said to him: Yes, provided that she be naked, for we wish to see her without any additional adornments.

What happens when Jews get drunk? This is usually seen by Purim when there is a mitzvah to get drunk:

אָמַר רָבָא: מִיחַיַּיב אִינִישׁ לְבַסּוֹמֵי בְּפוּרַיָּא עַד דְּלָא יָדַע בֵּין אָרוּר הָמָן לְבָרוּךְ מָרְדֳּכַי.

Rava said: A person is obligated to become intoxicated with wine on Purim until he is so intoxicated that he does not know how to distinguish between cursed is Haman and blessed is Mordecai.

Here the true colors of the person are revealed and many are seen to be very refined and good people.
Another aspect to touch on, is that despite when Jews have the mitzvah to drink wine by Shabbos and Yom Tov meals, they do not get drunk. What do they do instead? This contrast is brought in the Gemora:

״בַּיּוֹם הַשְּׁבִיעִי כְּטוֹב לֵב הַמֶּלֶךְ בַּיָּיִן״. אַטּוּ עַד הַשְׁתָּא לָא טָב לִבֵּיהּ בְּחַמְרָא? אֲמַר רָבָא: יוֹם הַשְּׁבִיעִי שַׁבָּת הָיָה. שֶׁיִּשְׂרָאֵל אוֹכְלִין וְשׁוֹתִין — מַתְחִילִין בְּדִבְרֵי תוֹרָה וּבְדִבְרֵי תִשְׁבָּחוֹת. אֲבָל אוּמּוֹת הָעוֹלָם שֶׁאוֹכְלִין וְשׁוֹתִין — אֵין מַתְחִילִין אֶלָּא בְּדִבְרֵי תִיפְלוּת.

The verse states: “On the seventh day, when the heart of the king was merry with wine” (Esther 1:10). The Gemara asks: Is that to say that until now his heart was not merry with wine? Did it take seven days for him to achieve merriment? Rava said: The seventh day was Shabbat, when the difference between the Jewish people and the gentiles is most apparent. On Shabbat, when the Jewish people eat and drink, they begin by occupying themselves with words of Torah and words of praise for God. But the nations of the world, when they eat and drink, they begin only with words of licentiousness.

A similar idea is brought in Kitzur Shulchan Oruch

(יד) בְּמִנְחָה קוֹדֵם קְרִיאַת הַתּוֹרָה, אוֹמְרִים וַאֲנִי תְּפִלָּתִי וְגוֹ', וְהוּא עַל פִּי מַה שֶּׁדָּרְשׁוּ רַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה בַּפָּסוּק, יַשִׂיחוּ בִּי יוֹשְׁבֵי שַׁעַר וּנְגִינוֹת שׁוֹתֵי שֵׁכָר. וּכְתִיב אַחֲרָיו, וַאֲנִי תְּפִלָּתִי וְגוֹ', אָמַר דָּוִד לִפְנֵי הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא, רִבּוֹנוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם, אֵין אֻמָּה זוֹ כִּשְׁאָר אֻמּוֹת הָעוֹלָם. אֻמּוֹת הָעוֹלָם כְּשֶׁהֵם שׁוֹתִים וּמִשְׁתַּכְּרִים הוֹלְכִין וּפוֹחֲזִין. וְאָנוּ לֹא כֵן, אֶלָּא אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁשָּׁתִינוּ, וַאֲנִי תְפִלָּתִי וְגוֹ' וְלָכֵן אוֹמְרִים אוֹתוֹ לִפְנֵי קְרִיאַת הַתּוֹרָה, לְהוֹדוֹת לְיוֹצְרֵנוּ, שֶׁלֹּא שָׂם חֶלְקֵנוּ כָּהֶם, וַאֲפִלּוּ הָרֵקִים שֶׁבָּנוּ, בָּאִים לִשְׁמֹעַ תּוֹרָה.

(14) At Minchah before reading the Torah we say: Va'ani sefilasi "But as for me, may my prayer etc." This is in accordance with the interpretation of our Sages of blessed memory of the verse: "They talk of me, those who sit in the gate, and (about me) are the songs of drunkards." And immediately thereafter it is written: "But as for me, may my prayer …" etc. King David said before the Holy One Blessed is He, "Master of the Universe, this Nation is not like other nations of the world. Other nations of the world when they drink, they get drunk, and become boisterous, but we are not like that, for even though we drink, we say 'But as for me, may my prayer …' etc." Therefore this verse is recited before the reading of the Torah to give thanks to our Creator that He has not assigned our portion like theirs for even the ignorant among us come to hear the reading of the Torah.

How does a person get to this state? It is all about working on ourselves and is an ongoing live work as it says:

(ד) וְהָאֶמְצָעִים הַמַּגִּיעִים אֶת הָאָדָם לַתַּכְלִית הַזֶּה, הֵם הַמִּצְווֹת אֲשֶׁר צִוָּנוּ עֲלֵיהֶן הָאֵל יִתְבָּרַךְ שְׁמוֹ. וּמְקוֹם עֲשִׂיַּת הַמִּצְווֹת הוּא רַק הָעוֹלָם הַזֶּה. עַל כֵּן הוּשַׂם הָאָדָם בָּזֶה הָעוֹלָם בַּתְּחִלָּה כְּדֵי שֶׁעַל יְדֵי הָאֶמְצָעִים הָאֵלֶּה הַמִּזְדַּמְּנִים לוֹ כָּאן יוּכַל לְהַגִּיעַ אֶל הַמָּקוֹם אֲשֶׁר הוּכַן לוֹ, שֶׁהוּא הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא, לִרְווֹת שָׁם בַּטּוֹב אֲשֶׁר קָנָה לוֹ עַל יְדֵי אֶמְצָעִים אֵלֶּה. וְהוּא מָה שֶׁאָמְרוּ, זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (עירובין כב א): הַיּוֹם לַעֲשׂוֹתָם וּמָחָר לְקַבֵּל שְׂכָרָם.

(4) The means that lead a person to this goal are the commandments which the blessed G-d commanded to us. The place of the performance of these commandments is only in this world. Therefore, man was first placed in this world so that through these means prepared for him here, he will be able to reach the place prepared for him, namely, the World to Come, there to be sated with the good which he acquired through these means. This is what our sages of blessed memory said "today to do them, and tomorrow to receive their reward" (Eruvin 22:1).

Wishing everyone success in this endeavor and the true test will be if a when you get drunk, then the true you will be revealed and this can change from one Purim to the next!
If you enjoyed this, there are many more fascinating information in other footnotes to my commentary entitled Megillas Esther Explained.