Parashat Shemot 5785: Choosing (Not) To Know

Why do people choose NOT to know?

(ח) וַיָּ֥קׇם מֶֽלֶךְ־חָדָ֖שׁ עַל־מִצְרָ֑יִם אֲשֶׁ֥ר לֹֽא־יָדַ֖ע אֶת־יוֹסֵֽף׃ (ט) וַיֹּ֖אמֶר אֶל־עַמּ֑וֹ הִנֵּ֗ה עַ֚ם בְּנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל רַ֥ב וְעָצ֖וּם מִמֶּֽנּוּ׃ (י) הָ֥בָה נִֽתְחַכְּמָ֖ה ל֑וֹ פֶּן־יִרְבֶּ֗ה וְהָיָ֞ה כִּֽי־תִקְרֶ֤אנָה מִלְחָמָה֙ וְנוֹסַ֤ף גַּם־הוּא֙ עַל־שֹׂ֣נְאֵ֔ינוּ וְנִלְחַם־בָּ֖נוּ וְעָלָ֥ה מִן־הָאָֽרֶץ׃

Exodus 1:8-10

(8) A new king arose over Egypt who did not know Joseph. (9) And he said to his people, “Look, the Israelite people are much too numerous for us. (10) Let us deal shrewdly with them, so that they may not increase; otherwise in the event of war they may join our enemies in fighting against us and rise from the ground.”

1. Pharaoh

רש"י על שמות א׳:ח׳

(א)ויקם מלך חדש. רַב וּשְׁמוּאֵל, חַד אָמַר חָדָשׁ מַמָּשׁ, וְחַד אָמַר שֶׁנִּתְחַדְּשׁוּ גְּזֵרוֹתָיו: (ב)אשר לא ידע. עָשָׂה עַצְמוֹ כְּאִלּוּ לֹא יְדָעוֹ (סוטה י"א):

Rashi on Exodus 1:8

(1) ויקם מלך חדש NOW THERE AROSE A NEW KING — Rab and Samuel (two Amoraim or Talmudical teachers) differed in their interpretation of these words. One said that he was really a new king; the other said that it was the same king but he made new edicts (Sotah 11a). (2) אשר לא ידע WHO KNEW NOT [JOSEPH] — he comported himself as though he did not know him (Sotah 11a).

Devora Steinmetz, Why Rain Comes from Above: Explorations in the Religious Imagination, 76: "Whether the verse means that the king did not know Joseph personally, or that the king chose not to recognize his debt to Joseph, or simply that the memory of Joseph and the help that he extended to Pharaoh had not been forgotten, one thing is clear: the king’s not knowing corresponds with the decision to harm Joseph’s people. Not knowing is a moral stance; it means that the king will not act in gratitude toward Joseph’s family- in fact, will not act even with the duty of care that a king has toward his subjects."

2. Cain

בראשית ד׳:ט׳

(ט) וַיֹּ֤אמֶר יְהֹוָה֙ אֶל־קַ֔יִן אֵ֖י הֶ֣בֶל אָחִ֑יךָ וַיֹּ֙אמֶר֙ לֹ֣א יָדַ֔עְתִּי הֲשֹׁמֵ֥ר אָחִ֖י אָנֹֽכִי׃

Genesis 4:9

(9) GOD said to Cain, “Where is your brother Abel?” And he said, “I do not know. Am I my brother’s keeper?”

Devora Steinmetz, Why Rain Comes from Above: Explorations in the Religious Imagination, 76: "The two parts of Cain’s reply constitute a single claim: “I do not know,” which means I don’t have to know…Not knowing, or claiming not to know, or choosing not to know, is a denial of moral responsibility."

3. Moshe's Sister

שמות ב׳:ד׳

(ד) וַתֵּתַצַּ֥ב אֲחֹת֖וֹ מֵרָחֹ֑ק לְדֵעָ֕ה מַה־יֵּעָשֶׂ֖ה לֽוֹ׃

Exodus 2:4

(4) And his sister stationed herself at a distance, to learn what would befall him.

Devora Steinmetz, Why Rain Comes from Above: Explorations in the Religious Imagination, 77: "Moses’s sister…does not stand there merely to gather information about her brother’s fate. She positions herself in a place of knowing so that she can help shape that fate…Moses’s sister, then, is the antithesis of Cain. While Cain chooses a stance of not knowing, of not being his brother’s keeper, Moses’s sister makes sure to know and to act to save her brother. She is also the antithesis of Pharoah; his not knowing propels the story of enslavement, while her knowing sets the stage for redemption."

4. God

שמות ב׳:כ״ג-כ״ה

(כג) וַיְהִי֩ בַיָּמִ֨ים הָֽרַבִּ֜ים הָהֵ֗ם וַיָּ֙מׇת֙ מֶ֣לֶךְ מִצְרַ֔יִם וַיֵּאָנְח֧וּ בְנֵֽי־יִשְׂרָאֵ֛ל מִן־הָעֲבֹדָ֖ה וַיִּזְעָ֑קוּ וַתַּ֧עַל שַׁוְעָתָ֛ם אֶל־הָאֱלֹהִ֖ים מִן־הָעֲבֹדָֽה׃ (כד) וַיִּשְׁמַ֥ע אֱלֹהִ֖ים אֶת־נַאֲקָתָ֑ם וַיִּזְכֹּ֤ר אֱלֹהִים֙ אֶת־בְּרִית֔וֹ אֶת־אַבְרָהָ֖ם אֶת־יִצְחָ֥ק וְאֶֽת־יַעֲקֹֽב׃ (כה) וַיַּ֥רְא אֱלֹהִ֖ים אֶת־בְּנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל וַיֵּ֖דַע אֱלֹהִֽים׃ {ס}

Exodus 2:23-25

(23) A long time after that, the king of Egypt died. The Israelites were groaning under the bondage and cried out; and their cry for help from the bondage rose up to God. (24) God heard their moaning, and God remembered the covenant with Abraham and Isaac and Jacob. (25) God looked upon the Israelites, and God took notice of them.

Devora Steinmetz, Why Rain Comes from Above: Explorations in the Religious Imagination, 77: "God’s knowing is the culmination of God’s hearing and seeing and remembering the covenant. This is an empathic knowledge…"

5. Choosing Not To Know

Nahum Sarna, The JPS Torah Commentary: Exodus, 5: "It is a key term in the Exodus narratives, occurring over twenty times in the first fourteen chapters. The usual rendering, “to know,” hardly does justice to the richness of its semantic range. In the biblical conception, knowledge is not essentially or even primarily rooted in the intellect and mental activity. Rather, it is more experiential and is embedded in the emotions, so that it may encompass such qualities as contact, intimacy, concern, relatedness, and mutuality. Conversely, not to know is synonymous with dissociation, indifference, alienation, and estrangement; it culminates in callous disregard for another’s humanity."

Simone de Beauvoir, The Ethics of Ambiguity, 159: "Regardless of the staggering dimensions of the world about us, the density of our ignorance, the risks of catastrophes to come, and our individual weakness within the immense collectivity, the fact remains that we are absolutely free today if we choose to will our existence in its finiteness, a finiteness which is open on the infinite. And in fact, any man who has known real loves, real revolts, real desires, and real will knows quite well that he has no need of any outside guarantee to be sure of his goals; their certitude comes from his own drive."

Joshua Rabin

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